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How to Lighten Stained Wood | 7 Options That Work

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When refinishing furniture, the wood color is often the first thing people want to change. That was the case for me when I bought this antique cupboard to use in my kitchen. Today, I’m sharing multiple viable options for how to lighten stained wood!

7 Ways to Lighten Stained Wood
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7 Ways to Lighten Stained Wood

As with any furniture refinishing project, there are multiple ways to accomplish the same goal.

Here are the top 7 ways to lighten stained wood.

  1. Steel wool
  2. Paint and varnish stripper
  3. Sanding
  4. Wood bleach
  5. Whitewash
  6. White Stain or Pickling
  7. Liming or Cerusing Wax

The method you choose will be dependent on your piece of furniture, as well as your skill level.

7 Ways to Lighten Stained Wood

Additionally, some wood species or furniture pieces may require a combination of more than one wood lightening method.

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Let’s use my cabinet as an example of this process.

Pine cabinet before refinishing.

It was heavily lacquered with a dark red-tint stain. I wanted to lighten the wood significantly to give it more of a raw wood look.

Lightened cabinet after refinishing.

There is more than one way to accomplish this, so I’m laying out all the multiple options available to you. Then, you can decide what will work best with your furniture piece and give it a try!

How to Lighten Stained Wood Without Sanding

First, let’s talk about the options for how to lighten wood without sanding. Most people want to avoid this step because sanding is extremely tedious, messy and physically taxing if you’re working on a large piece.

Additionally, you may have just applied a wood stain that turned out darker than you’d hoped and you want to lighten it. There are a couple of options for how to lighten stained wood without sanding.

The first step is to thoroughly clean your piece with mild soap and water, if it is older. Let it dry fully before continuing. Only fully dry pieces will show the true wood tone you are working with.

Use Steel Wool to Lighten Stained Wood

Steel wool is a viable option to lighten wood without sanding. Start by dampening your 0000 steel wool in warm water. Run the steel wool along the grain of your wood to avoid scratching it.

This will require some elbow grease. Make several passes, applying light pressure, and see if the wood begins to lighten. If it does, then keep going!

If it doesn’t, the next step is to add mineral spirits or turpentine. Repeat this process with steel wool or a clean cloth until you’ve reached the desired lightness in your wood.

*Reader Disclaimer: A note that steel wool can cause black spots on oak when the metal interacts with the tannins! Avoid using steel wool on oak wood.

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Use Paint and Varnish Stripper to Remove Stain

If the above option doesn’t work, and you don’t want to sand, then your next step is to remove the stain as much as possible.

Using a paint and varnish stripper is another option to lighten stained wood by removing it to start fresh.

I’ve always used CitriStrip because it is low-odor and gentler than harsh strippers. Another positive is that it can sit on the piece for up to 24 hours so you are less tied to the project, if you can’t apply and remove the stripper in one afternoon.

If you’ve never used furniture stripper before, follow my simple tutorial here, where I show you how I stripped and refinished my dining table top.

Best Way to Lighten Wood

Now that we’ve covered some of the ways to attempt this without sanding, let’s dive in to what I would recommend as the best way to lighten wood.

This involves a combination of sanding, bleaching and applying a top coat.

Remember, every wood species has a different undertone to take into consideration. To learn more about that, check out this post where I shared how to change the color of wood.

For my cabinet, I was dealing with significant red undertones with subtle yellow undertones. I wanted a much whiter look, but didn’t want to whitewash it.

Here are the simple steps from start to finish on my piece!

Step 1: Sand

Start by sanding your piece down to the raw wood.

This is extremely tedious and time consuming on a large piece. However, it will give you the best outcome if you’re looking for a very raw and organic color in the end.

Begin with 60 or 80 grit sandpaper to take off the finish as quickly as possible if you are working with a thick varnish. Always sand with the grain of your wood, applying light pressure.

The harder you push, the more you risk marring your wood. I use this palm sander.

For detail sanding, here are a few additional options:

Once you’ve taken off the stain with a low grit sandpaper, the next step is to smooth it out. Go up incrementally in steps with your sandpaper grit.

I used 60, then 150, then 220.

This creates a smooth finish on your wood so that it accepts stain the best.

At this point, you might have achieved your desired wood color! If so, you can seal it with a top coat.

This topcoat has come highly recommended by many wood workers for keeping the original color and not darkening it.

Step 2: Add Wood Bleach

If you’ve sanded your furniture down to raw wood and it still isn’t light enough, the next step is to bleach your wood. For this step, you have a few options.

Can I Apply Household Bleach on Wood?

Short answer: yes, household bleach will lighten wood. However, it’s not the only option.

Household bleach will remove leftover dye from wood, but it won’t actually change the wood color itself. For my project, I only had regular bleach on hand.

I applied the bleach with my favorite scrub brush and then let it dry in the sun. It lightened my cupboard significantly.

If using this method, you can apply multiple layers of bleach over time until you achieve the desired color of wood.

Once you’ve lightened the wood as much as you want, use a 50/50 vinegar to water solution and wipe down your wood. This neutralizes the bleach.

Let it dry fully between each coat so you can see how much the wood actually lightens. If your wood is damp, it will appear darker than it is when it’s dry.

How to Bleach Wood Using Wood Bleach

Using household bleach on wood is one method, however, if it doesn’t give you the desired look, then the next step to bleach wood is with wood bleach. Of course, you can always start with this in the first place as it is most effective!

As you are figuring out how to lighten stained wood with wood bleach, go in increments.

Start with one application and see what it does to your wood color. Let it dry fully, then decide if you need another coat. It’s all about the baby steps as you don’t want to over-lighten your wood accidentally.

There are a few wood bleach products on the market to choose from.

Savogran Wood Bleach

Savogran wood bleach uses oxalic acid and water to lift color. This bleach is known for removing black spots and stains. It may take a few applications to achieve your desired color, but it’s a viable option for how to bleach furniture that isn’t extremely dark.

Zinsser Wood Bleach

Zinsser wood bleach is another option that is more “heavy duty” for dark tone woods like cherry or mahogany.

The beauty of this bleach is that is actually takes the color out of the wood, without removing the grain.

As with the other methods, start with one application. If it doesn’t remove the color to your liking, you can apply another coat.

Step 3: Lighten Your Wood Further With a Top Coat

At this point you may be happy with the color of your wood.

Again, take these step by step and see how your wood looks before trying the next step. If you’re happy after bleaching your wood, then seal with a top coat.

On the other hand, you might want to take it a step further. With my cabinet, I wanted to counteract some of the yellow undertones that came out after bleaching.

Here are some options to continue lightening your wood.

White Wash

White washing is simply mixing white paint and water to lighten wood. Then, applying with a rag or brush.

The more paint you add to your mixture, the more opaque the finished look will be. So, if you’re looking to just lighten your wood without covering the wood grain, then use mostly water with a few drops of paint.

Start with less paint and you can always add more as needed to achieve your look. Test a hidden area on your piece to make sure you have the right mixture before applying to the whole piece.

White Stain, Pickling or Color Wash

Part of the process I undertook with my cabinet was adding Antique White stain. I’ve used this stain to neutralize undertones in the past and love the way it looks.

As part of my cabinet process, I did apply Antique White to the entire cupboard.

Antique white stain on a cabinet for how to lighten stained wood.

Similarly, you can try applying a color wash, which is a similar option. There is also stain that produces a pickling effect and can be applied over existing stain. And of course, you can always try weathered stains!

The sky is really the limit on applying stain to your bleached wood. You just have to be willing to test which option is best for your wood and the final color you’re trying to achieve.

Liming Wax or Cerusing Wax

The next option is to apply a liming wax or cerusing wax.

These are very similar in the final outcome, and both give that vintage worn look with a white grained finish. The main difference is that the cerusing wax finishes out to a more durable topcoat.

Applying liming wax for how to lighten stained wood.

I ended up applying a liming wax to my cupboard as the final top coat and am so happy with how it turned out.

It was a simple process.

Buffing liming wax

Simply brush the wax on in a cross hatch motion with a stiff bristle brush. Apply a full coverage coat. Then, wait 30 minutes and come back and buff with a lint free cloth.

This creates a subtle sheen as the wax is worked into the wood.

Cabinet with lime wax added.

Furniture Refinishing Cost

One of the things I love about Facebook Marketplace finds is that you can achieve a really nice piece of furniture, on a budget, with some elbow grease. But realistically, furniture refinishing costs can vary based on what you already have on hand, the size of your piece, and how many failed attempts you have.

Lightened wood cabinet in a kitchen.

For my pine cabinet, I paid $150 to the seller, then had to purchase sand paper, different waxes I was considering, gloves, face masks for sanding, steel wool, putty knife, and wood conditioner. I spent around $100 in supplies, bringing my grand total to $250 for a huge cabinet!

I’d say that’s a good deal.

Of course, everyone’s budget will be different, but the hours and hours of work go a long way to add affordable pieces to my home.

New Pantry Cabinet for $250

If you want to see the full process that I went through, come commiserate with me on YouTube where I show you the entire process I endured on this project!

YouTube video

Can you believe it’s the same piece?!

Of course, I kept the original hardware. I think it adds so much charm. I didn’t even clean it up as I liked how the character of years of use looks.

Side view of refinished cabinet.

One side is inset because it used to be part of a larger built in. So, I used that space to hang my apron and some artwork for a pretty detail looking into the kitchen from the dining room.

Opening to a dining room.

Kitchen cabinet turned into a pantry.

I love how it all came together! What do you think of how it turned out? I love how much character it adds to our modern kitchen.

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Thanks for joining me here on the blog today! I hope this article on how to lighten stained wood was helpful to you. Make sure to take it step by step.

Cabinet looking into kitchen.

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  1. Achieve a subtle white or grey wash by mixing one part paint with two parts water (adjust dilution as needed). Don’t forget a light sanding beforehand for smooth paint application.

  2. Your endeavors and clarifications are incredibly valuable. It has been a delight working with you. It is feasible for you to show improvement over previously. The data on this site was exceptionally useful to me

  3. The article discusses methods for lightening stained wood furniture without sanding, including using steel wool, paint strippers, bleaching, and various finishing techniques. It emphasizes the importance of research and patience. The author shares their experience refinishing a pine cabinet and highlights the affordability of furniture refinishing. Thanks for sharing the content.

  4. So excited to try this for my wood piece!

    Should I be applying both a regular top coat and a liming wax top coat in any case? Or is the liming wax only necessary after bleaching and/or white washing? How do I know which coat to apply? This part is confusing to me

    Thank you in advance 💕

  5. Great publish!! Just bought a home that has a large kitchen with cabinets 5 years old but a deep color with perhaps reddish tint to them. In great shape though. It would be nearly impossible to find a spot to “test”. Do you think one of these processes would work better than others with that original color? Thanks very much.

  6. Hi. This post was so helpful; thank you. I just have one question. If using household bleach, does it need to be watered down and if so, what is the ratio of bleach to water, please? Many thanks. Linda

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